Excuse the length of this post, it is extremely personal and sentimental.

Last weekend my family and I said our last goodbye to a pillar in our family, John C. Cooks, my grandfather, known as "Paw Paw." Paw Paw was a man of consistency. He was a God fearing man who loved his wife, family, and the Church. He will forever be a role model, and his legacy will live on. The passing of my grandfather hit close to home as he is the first person in my immediate family whom I've had to say goodbye to.

Naturally, my emotions were scattered. It has always been difficult for me decipher my emotions. However, I knew I wanted to spend time with my widowed grandmother. So,we did the only thing I knew to do. We had a portrait session. Possibly the greatest portrait session I will ever have. I learned so much during this session. I learned about true love. Even in the time of mourning, my Granny continually expressed her love towards my Paw Paw.          

My grandmother is a strong woman. I was hesitant to ask her if she would take a few portraits soon after such a life changing event, but she was proud to have one last portrait session with her husband. I usually capture new love with my lens as I shoot engagement portraits and weddings. But, it was rewarding to capture a seasoned love, one that endured the test of time.

 I also experienced how invaluable a photograph can be. The only thing left we have of our loved ones once they are gone, are photographs. This last photo of my grandparents together will forever be cherished in my family.  

Lastly, I learned about myself. I learned it’s ok to be sad sometimes, it’s ok to experience an uncomfortable moment. When singers feel a certain way they sing. When writers feel a certain way, they write. I am a photographer, so when I feel a certain way, I capture those emotions with my camera. As a photographer it's easy for me to get caught up in pleasing the client. It was refreshing to feel the moment and spend quality time with my grandmother as we took portraits to honor Paw Paw.

This portrait session is one of my greatest because of what I learned from it.  The session provided emotional healing  for me as I said my last goodbye to my Paw Paw.

 I encourage you all to take portraits with your family as often as possible and cherish them, many possessions can be replaced.  However, the power of a memorable photograph is a belonging that is irreplaceable. 

Joshua Farris

Pharris Photography, LLC…Making moments last forever.